Dying
process of losing these functions
Good death
Free from avoidable distress and suffering
Bad death
Needless suffering, dishonoring of patient/family wishes or values
Uniform Determination of Death Act
(1981)
Irretrievable cessation of circulatory and
respiratory functions
Stage 3 – Bargaining
Stage 4 – Depression
Stage 5 – Acceptance
Near Death Experience
Strikingly similar
Descriptions
Out of body experience Viewing one’s body
Overhearing conversations
Feeling of peace and quiet
Hearing a distant noise
Entering a dark tunnel
Leaving the body behind
Returning to life to complete unfinished business
Described as peaceful/loving
Feels real
Provoke sweeping lifestyle changes
Experience of “visions” ( unio mystica )
Life Cycle Considerations about
Death/Dying
Children
Pre- school
Death seen as temporary absence, incomplete and
reversible (departure/sleep)
Maybe unable to relate treatment to illness
School – age
Recognize death as a final reality
Active fantasies of violence/aggression (6-12 yrs)
II.
Adolescents
Understand death is inevitable/final but may not
accept that their own death is possible
Concerns about body image or loss of body functions
– great resistance to treatment
Alternating emotions of despair, rage, grief, terror, are
common
Potential for withdrawal/isolation
great
III.
Adults
Common fears
Separation from loved ones
Becoming a burden
Losing control
What will happen to dependents
Pain
Being unable to complete life tasks
Dying
Being dead
Fears of others
Fate of body
The afterlife
Sense of integrity vs. despair (Erik Erikson)
Management
Highly individual
caretakers need to need to deal with death
honestly; tolerate wide range or affects,
connect with patients and resolve issues
as they arise
Major themes confront all health providers
caring for dying patient
Grief, Mourning and Bereavement
Grief
Subjective feeling precipitated by the death of a
loved one
Mourning
process by which grief is resolved
Bereavement
State of being deprived of someone by death ….
Being in a state of mourning
Normal Bereavement Reactions
Protest
Searching behavior
Despair and detachment
Reorganize self
Duration of Grief
Few weeks to months to years
Lasting manifestation is loneliness
Protracted grief occurs intermittently
Bittersweet memories may last a lifetime
Complicated Bereavement
Chronic grief
Hypertrophic grief
Delayed grief
Traumatic bereavement
Grief Depression
Fluid, changing and Pervasive
evolving state Recognizable cluster of
Fluctuating state and debilitating symptoms
cognitive and behavioral accompanied by a
adjustments are protracted, enduring low
progressively made mood
Time limited fleeting with Persistent and associated
full resumption o function with mark
social/occupational
dysfunction
Grief Therahy
Normal grief – seldom need psychiatric help
Seriously suicidal – psychiatric intervention ex.
Sleeping medications, antidepressants,
anxiolytics
Counseling sessions – depressive disorder,
pathological mourning
Grief theraphy – one on one or group