October 3, 2008
Dacher Keltner
University of California, Berkeley
keltner@berkeley.edu
www.greatergoodscience.org
A Roadmap
• Traditions in the Study of Happiness
• Positive Psychology, Parsing the Realm
• BREAK: 10:15 to 10:30
• The Evolution of Human Sociality
• Biological Foundations of Happiness
• LUNCH: 11:30 TO 12:30
• Styles of Thinking
• Happiness in Relationships
• Happiness at Work
• BREAK: 2:15 TO 2:30
• Stress
• Transcending Stress
• Beyond Happiness
• NIRVANA: 4:00
Goals
• New Ideas
• New Tools
• Evidence for the Good Life
Virtue Ethics in Classical
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• Aristotle and moderation
• Eudamonia
• From +7 to +8
• Provocative studies
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Clarifying the Conceptual
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• Well-being: “Overall my life is going well”
• Social Relations
Love Attachment
Desire Reproduction
Compassion Nurturance
Pride Elevated Status
Gratitude Reciprocity/Friendship
Awe Leaders
• Distress Reduction
Relief
• Knowledge
Interest Learning
Amusement Transformation/Insight
Other measures
• Functions of Oxytocin
• Faithful and frisky voles
• Oxytocin and love
• The Neuroeconomics of Trust
• LOVE DESIRE HAPPY
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• Affiliation cues
• Self-report .26* .28* .06 -.11 .17 .04
Partner Estimate .25* .21* .17 .05 .10 .00
• Sexual Cues
• Self-report -.01 -.19 .30* .34** -.03 -23*
• Partner Estimate -.01 -.17 .31* .34** -.04 -.07
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• Affiliation Cues Sexual Cues
Contr. for Sexual Cues Contr. for
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• Oxytocin Reactivity .50** .11
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• Oxytocin Recovery .15 .12
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Oxytocin and Trust
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Happiness and Hemispheric
Asymmetry
• The Left Frontal Cortex and Positive
Emotion
Emotion Studies:
approach related positive emotion
trait happiness
Studies of Buddhist Monks
Studies of Meditation
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Compassion
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• Cynicism and the Decline of Trust
Toxic Thoughts: Materialism
• No study finds associations between material gain
and increased well-being
• Self-fulfilling prophecies of 30
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• Blame in couples
An Intellectual Legacy of
Cynicism
• The very emphasis of the commandment: Thou shalt not kill, makes
it certain that we are descended from an endlessly long chain of
generations of murderers, whose love of murder was in their blood
as it is perhaps also in ours. Sigmund Freud
• Related to:
– gender differences in depression
– ruminative style leads to depression, transforms negative moods
into enduring dysphoric states
– rumination leads to less optimism, reduced energy, less motivation,
worsened concentration, depressive emotion and though
A Need to Belong: Happiness is
found between
• “Feral” children, solitary confinement
• Psychopathology, violence related to loneliness
• Social support and immune system
– Cohen: more friends, fewer colds
– Kiecolt-Glaser: stronger marriages, better immune systems
• Intimate relationship and happiness
• One friend rule for children with difficulties
Losing Intimacy?
• Emotional Intelligence =
– Intelligent encoding
– Intelligent decoding
– Intelligent insight into own emotions
– Intelligent management of emotions
Caring:
Respect is paramount
• Providing acknowledge-
ment increases productivity
as much as monetary
incentives
Monetary incentives Monetary incentives
+ acknowledgement
How to build trust? A few
tips
• Endorphins
• Breathing
• Catharsis
• Social Contact
Nature
• Biophilia (Wilson)
• Reward
• Reinforce Reciprocity
• Signal Safety
• Soothe
• Power
Touch and the spread of goodness
Emotion
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Meditation (Kabat-Zinn;
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• Core Principles
– Breathing reduced cariovascular arousal
– Awareness of sensations Frontal control of limbic
– Awareness of mind
– Loving Kindness shift in asymmetry
• Empirical Evidence
– Monks
– Kabat-Zinn, Davidson (2004): software engineers
– Fredrickson, 2008: boosts in happiness over 2 months
– mindful people happier, more optimistic
Laughter (la petite vacation)
• Its evolution in play
• neuroscience of cooperation:
activates Nucleus Accumbens
CARE
• Bequeath(ed) humans with a sense of empathy –
an ability to treat other people’s interests as
comparable to one’s own. Unfortunately, by
default we apply it only to a very serious narrow
circle of friends and family. People outside that
circle were treated as subhuman and can be
exploited with impunity. But over history the
circle has expanded… from village to the clan to
the tribe to the nation to other races to other
sexes… and to other species
LOVE (Coontz)
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Experience of Love
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Sexual Desire
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Romantic
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IMAGINE
The great secret of morals is love, or
a going out of our own nature, and an
identification of ourselves with the
beautiful which exists in thought,
action or person, not our own. A
man, to be greatly good, must
imagine intensely and
comprehensively; he must put
himself in the place of another and of
many others; the pains and pleasures
of his species must become his own.
The great instrument of moral good is
the imagination (Shelley).
Narrative
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