Malaysia
Singapore
64%
59%
68%
65%
Husband/boyfriend
53%
47%
Father
22%
25%
18%
25%
Colleague/Boss
20%
14%
27%
17%
Son
18%
22%
15%
18%
Friend
9%
11%
9%
Loyal citizen
Community Leader
75%
42%
46%
35%
48%
Wage earner
60%
4%
4%
4%
5%
Q. In which three of the following roles do you spend most of your time?
18%
23%
24%
17%
29%
Countries Combined
China
Malaysia
Singapore
Husband/boyfriend
Taking care of myself
43%
32%
34%
36%
26%
30%
Wage earner
37%
34%
21%
28%
Father
17%
33%
32%
27%
Colleague/Boss
19%
21%
23%
20%
20%
Son
20%
18%
23%
20%
15%
12%
10%
Loyal citizen
-3%
-7%
-3%
35%
30%
Friend
Community Leader
36%
38%
29%
24%
2%
LESS
Q. Compared to your father at this time of his life, would you say you personally focus on each of these more, the same, or less than he did?
MORE
Malaysia
Singapore
35%
26%
Better health
46%
33%
33%
37%
Better finances
27%
35%
22%
27%
16%
24%
Q. If you could have only one of the following, which would you choose?
6%
8%
5%
6%
3%
2%
5%
2%
88%
88%
Men face the same tough decisions as women do about how to balance career and family
It was so much easier back in the day when men went to work and women took care of the kids and the home
Employers assume men will be there, while women with children can put in less time because of their families
79%
76%
60%
69%
62%
68%
If one parent needs to stay at home with the children, it should be the one who has the lower salary
If one parent needs to stay at home with the children, it should be the mother
70%
65%
60%
Men face the same tough decisions as women do about how to balance career and family
88%
93%
91%
83%
Employers assume men will be there, while women with children can put in less time because of their families
It was so much easier back in the day when men went to work and women took care of the kids and the home
If one parent needs to stay at home with the children, it should be the mother
If one parent needs to stay at home with the children, it should be the one who has the lower salary
78%
75%
61%
75%
62%
71%
78%
92%
90%
Men face the same tough decisions as women do about how to balance career and family
72%
80%
It was so much easier back in the day when men went to work and women took care of the kids and the home
Employers assume men will be there, while women with children can put in less time because of their families
69%
79%
65%
69%
If one parent needs to stay at home with the children, it should be the one who has the lower salary
If one parent needs to stay at home with the children, it should be the mother
74%
60%
60%
90%
91%
Men face the same tough decisions as women do about how to balance career and family
It was so much easier back in the day when men went to work and women took care of the kids and the home
80%
77%
63%
77%
Employers assume men will be there, while women with children can put in less time because of their families
69%
69%
If one parent needs to stay at home with the children, it should be the one who has the lower salary
If one parent needs to stay at home with the children, it should be the mother
74%
67%
61%
Womans
Take
Partner
Partner
Someone else
Doing the bills/managing the finances
Woman
Someone else
69%
18% 14%
60%
16%
54%
16%
30%
39%
24%
37%
Doing yard work/working in the garden (other than mowing the lawn)
52%
21%
26%
Doing yard work/working in the garden (other than mowing the lawn)
39%
29%
32%
49%
24%
27%
Grocery shopping
42%
41%
17%
29%
41%
72%
30%
15%
Vacuuming
35%
35%
30%
Vacuuming 17%
54%
29%
32%
39%
29%
60%
24%
31%
39%
31%
55%
29%
28%
42%
30%
57%
30%
Dusting
27%
42%
30%
Dusting 13%
58%
29%
50%
27%
69%
23%
Cooking 21%
51%
28%
60%
28%
Mean:
39%
100%
PARTN
90%
ER
80%
70%
60%
59%
50%
50% 44%
40%
41%
41%
40%
34%
30%
20%
10%
43%
Mean:
35%
19%
19% 11%
14%
MA
SOMEONE
0%
N
ELSE
0% 10% 20% 30% 40% 50% 60% 70% 80% 90% 100%
10
100%
PARTN
90%
ER
Mean:
41%
80%
70% 67%
60%
50%
40%
30%
20%
53%
52% 52%
48%
45%
41%
40%
30%
35%
26%
26%
Mean:
43%
10%
MA
SOMEONE
0%
N
ELSE
10% 20% 30% 40% 50% 60% 70% 80% 90% 100%
11
100%
PARTN
90%
ER
Mean:
35%
80%
70%
60%
50%
42%
39%
35%
40%
33%
34%
27%
33%
30%
Mean:
28%
19%
27%
20%
14%
8%
18%
10%
MA
SOMEONE
0%
N
ELSE
10% 20% 30% 40% 50% 60% 70% 80% 90% 100%
12
Excludes N/A Responses
Q. In your household, who is primarily responsible for each of the following household responsibilities?
PARTN
90%
ER
Mean:
39%
80%
70%
60%
50%
40%
30%
20%
51%
50%
42%
39% 41%
42%
39%
35%
24%
21%16%
18%
Mean:
35%
10%
MA
SOMEONE
0%
N
ELSE
10% 20% 30% 40% 50% 60% 70% 80% 90% 100%
13
Mean:
17%
WOMA
90%
N
80%
72%
69%
70%
62%
60% 58%
53%
58%54%
57%
50%
40%
52%
Mean:
51%
32%
30%
20%
10%
23%
19%
PARTNE
SOMEONE
0%
R
ELSE
0% 10% 20% 30% 40% 50% 60% 70% 80% 90% 100%
14
100%
90%
80%
70%
60%
50%
40%
30%
Mean:
25%
WOMA
N
76%
75%
74%
66%
65%
65%
65%
63%
62%
Mean:
61%
51%
36%
33%
20%
10%
PARTNE
SOMEONE
0%
R
ELSE
0% 10% 20% 30% 40% 50% 60% 70% 80% 90% 100%
15
Mean:
17%
WOMA
90%
N
80%
69%
70% 61%
57%
60%
52% 54%
52%
54%
45%
50%
40%
46%
40%
30%
20%
10%
Mean:
48%
30%
21%
PARTNE
SOMEONE
0%
R
ELSE
0% 10% 20% 30% 40% 50% 60% 70% 80% 90% 100%
16
WOMA
90%
N
80%
70%
60%
50%
Mean:
20%
72%
69%
60%
60%
57%
60%54%
58%
55%
41%
Mean:
53%
40%
30%
20%
29%
24%
10%
PARTNE
SOMEONE
0%
R
ELSE
0% 10% 20% 30% 40% 50% 60% 70% 80% 90% 100%
17
Womans
Take
Partner
Partner
Someone else
Woman
Someone else
68%
25% 7%
48%
45%
7%
66%
25% 9%
47%
44%
9%
Disciplining child(ren)
56%
39%
6%
Disciplining child(ren)
29%
66%
5%
51%
42%
7%
26%
68%
6%
46%
47%
7%
75%
4%
46%
46%
8%
74%
7%
7%
76%
5%
36%
57%
Bedtime routine
30%
62%
7%
78%
5%
29%
64%
7%
75%
6%
28%
62%
10%
79%
6%
72%
8%
82%
5%
71%
9%
78%
7%
16%
71%
76%
13%
18
Womans
Take
Partner
Partner
Someone else
Woman
Someone else
64%
31% 6%
34%
54%
12%
Disciplining child(ren)
60%
36%
5%
Disciplining child(ren)
31%
61%
8%
60%
38%
3%
26%
66%
8%
59%
30% 11%
51%
15%
34%
50%
46%
4%
46%
49%
5%
76%
7%
78%
9%
34%
61%
5%
77%
6%
34%
63%
2%
78%
7%
Bedtime routine
30%
5%
81%
8%
26%
67%
7%
80%
9%
Changing diapers
24%
69%
7%
80%
7%
75%
3%
86%
5%
65%
77%
14%
78%
17%
19
Womans
Take
Partner
Partner
Someone else
Woman
Someone else
68%
24% 8%
59%
40%
1%
67%
26% 7%
58%
40%
2%
53%
41%
6%
25%
73%
2%
Disciplining child(ren)
51%
42%
6%
Disciplining child(ren)
30%
68%
2%
48%
43%
9%
28%
70%
2%
46%
45%
8%
30%
68%
2%
42%
52%
6%
25%
72%
2%
7%
77%
2%
10%
78%
2%
Bedtime routine
36%
33%
57%
57%
24%
69%
7%
77%
3%
68%
8%
75%
3%
69%
13%
72%
10%
76%
7%
75%
6%
20
Womans
Take
Partner
Partner
Someone else
Woman
Someone else
73%
17% 10%
47%
41%
12%
72%
19% 8%
48%
43%
9%
Disciplining child(ren)
57%
37%
50%
41%
Disciplining child(ren)
7%
26%
9%
69%
70%
6%
10%
38%
51%
12%
34%
55%
10%
33%
58%
8%
72%
12%
31%
60%
10%
80%
9%
80%
11%
75%
77%
10%
6%
63%
14%
67%
10%
78%
8%
14%
79%
8%
67%
72%
68%
14%
86%
7%
81%
12%
22%
21
100%
90%
80%
70%
60%
50%
40%
30%
Mean:
40%
PARTNE
R
77% 75%
69%
67%
65%
63%
61%
49%
46%
Mean:
54%
38%
36%
31%
30%
20%
10%
MA
SOMEONE
0%
N
ELSE
0% 10% 20% 30% 40% 50% 60% 70% 80% 90% 100%
22
100%
PARTNE
90%
R
80% 76%
69%
68%
70%
69%
60%
50%
40%
30%
Mean:
41%
57%
57%
52%
45%
42%
41%
43%
Mean:
51%
26%
24%
20%
10%
MA
SOMEONE
0%
N
ELSE
10% 20% 30% 40% 50% 60% 70% 80% 90% 100%
23
Mean:
37%
100%
PARTNE
90%
R
80%
70%
60%
50%
40%
72%
68% 67%
67%
63%
58%
60% 51%
55%
Mean:
52%
41%
37%
30%
20%
19%
17%
10%
MA
SOMEONE
0%
N
ELSE
0% 10% 20% 30% 40% 50% 60% 70% 80% 90% 100%
24
PARTNE
90%
R
80%
70%
60%
50%
40%
Mean:
39%
72%
71%
71% 62%
62%
64%
57%
47%
42%
39%
46%
30%
Mean:
53%
25%
25%
20%
10%
MA
SOMEONE
0%
N
ELSE
0% 10% 20% 30% 40% 50% 60% 70% 80% 90% 100%
25
100%
90%
80%
70%
60%
50%
Mean:
18%
WOMAN
81%
78%
66%
Mean:
73%
51%
40%
30%
20%
10%
PARTNE
SOMEONE
0%
R
ELSE
0% 10% 20% 30% 40% 50% 60% 70% 80% 90% 100%
26
Q. And in your household, who is primarily responsible for each of the following childcare responsibilities?
100%
90%
80%
70%
WOMAN
Mean:
29%
77%
70%
Mean:
68%
60%
50%
40%
40%
30%
20%
10%
PARTNE
SOMEONE
0%
R
ELSE
10% 20% 30% 40% 50% 60% 70% 80% 90% 100%
27
Q. And in your household, who is primarily responsible for each of the following childcare responsibilities?
Mean:
19%
WOMAN
78%
75%
Mean:
72%
70%
60%
50%
40%
41%
30%
20%
10%
PARTNE
SOMEONE
0%
R
ELSE
0% 10% 20% 30% 40% 50% 60% 70% 80% 90% 100%
28
Q. And in your household, who is primarily responsible for each of the following childcare responsibilities?
Mean:
23%
WOMAN
78%
74%
68%
Mean:
70%
60%
50%
44%
40%
30%
20%
10%
PARTNE
SOMEONE
0%
R
ELSE
0% 10% 20% 30% 40% 50% 60% 70% 80% 90% 100%
29
Q. And in your household, who is primarily responsible for each of the following childcare responsibilities?
China
Singapore
54%
46%
40%
24%
22%
15%
25%
17%
17%
5%
4%
3%
0%
30
Q. How would you grade yourself in terms of performing household responsibilities?
China
Singapore
63%
59%
52%
38%
32%
24%
12%
7%
2%
5%
4%
0%
1%
0%
31
Q. How would you grade yourself in terms of performing household responsibilities?
51%
37%
21%
18%
27%
24%
15%
2%
3%
2%
32
Q. How would you grade yourself in terms of performing childcare responsibilities?
Q. And how would you grade your spouse-significant other in terms of performing childcare responsibilities?
58%
40%
26%
24%
23%
17%
10%
2%
1%
0%
33
Q. How would you grade yourself in terms of performing childcare responsibilities?
Q. And how would you grade your spouse-significant other in terms of performing childcare responsibilities?
49%
41%
32%
24%
17%
13%
15%
7%
3%
0%
34
Q. How would you grade yourself in terms of performing childcare responsibilities?
Q. And how would you grade your spouse-significant other in terms of performing childcare responsibilities?
53%
39%
22%
27%
24%
16%
13%
3%
2%
1%
35
Q. How would you grade yourself in terms of performing childcare responsibilities?
Q. And how would you grade your spouse-significant other in terms of performing childcare responsibilities?
54%
48%
40%
38%
8%
4%
0%
0%
36
Q. How would you grade yourself in terms of performing childcare responsibilities?
Q. And how would you grade your spouse-significant other in terms of performing childcare responsibilities?
55%
54%
38%
34%
8%
6%
3%
1%
0%
37
Q. How would you grade yourself in terms of performing childcare responsibilities?
Q. And how would you grade your spouse-significant other in terms of performing childcare responsibilities?
66%
41%
34%
28%
20%
3%
5%
3%
0%
38
Q. How would you grade yourself in terms of performing childcare responsibilities?
Q. And how would you grade your spouse-significant other in terms of performing childcare responsibilities?
57%
49%
36%
11%
6%
3%
1%
0%
39
Q. How would you grade yourself in terms of performing childcare responsibilities?
Q. And how would you grade your spouse-significant other in terms of performing childcare responsibilities?
Female
54%
Household
69%
51%
Childcare
75%
73%
Financial
54%
40
Q. About what percent of the household responsibilities would you say you personally handle?
Q. And about what percent of the financial responsibilities would you say you personally handle?
Q. About what percent of the childcare responsibilities would you say you personally handle?
73%
My spouse/significant other
33%
51%
Me
My mother
My mother in law
The helper/nanny/maid
Female
90%
8%
4%
4%
5%
2%
1%
0%
Someone else
0%
41
74%
My spouse/significant other
37%
52%
Me
My mother
The helper/nanny/maid
Female
90%
8%
3%
4%
0%
My mother in law
3%
2%
0%
Someone else
0%
42
74%
My spouse/significant other
32%
56%
Me
My mother
My mother in law
The helper/nanny/maid
Female
93%
10%
4%
5%
6%
1%
1%
0%
Someone else
0%
43
73%
My spouse/significant other
30%
41%
Me
My mother
My mother in law
The helper/nanny/maid
Female
85%
6%
4%
3%
8%
1%
1%
0%
Someone else
0%
44
Female
68%
Me
83%
61%
My spouse/significant other
My mother
My mother in law
The helper/nanny/maid
43%
4%
3%
4%
4%
1%
0%
0%
Someone else
0%
45
Female
76%
Me
83%
59%
My spouse/significant other
My mother in law
My mother
Someone else
51%
3%
3%
3%
2%
0%
1%
0%
The helper/nanny/maid
0%
46
Female
74%
Me
73%
55%
My spouse/significant other
My mother
My mother in law
58%
4%
1%
1%
1%
0%
The helper/nanny/maid
0%
0%
Someone else
2%
47
Female
86%
Me
89%
56%
My spouse/significant other
My mother in law
My mother
54%
4%
3%
3%
1%
0%
The helper/nanny/maid
0%
0%
Someone else
0%
48
69%
My spouse/significant other
37%
61%
Me
My mother in law
My mother
Someone else
Female
85%
3%
4%
1%
3%
1%
0%
0%
The helper/nanny/maid
0%
49
Female
87%
If I could afford it, my spouse/significant other would stay home with my family full time
58%
67%
62%
61%
50
Q. How strongly do you agree or disagree with the following statements?
Female
71%
If I could afford it, my spouse/significant other would stay home with my family full time
40%
63%
60%
59%
51
Q. How strongly do you agree or disagree with the following statements?
Female
75%
If I could afford it, my spouse/significant other would stay home with my family full time
63%
66%
66%
66%
52
Q. How strongly do you agree or disagree with the following statements?
Female
77%
If I could afford it, my spouse/significant other would stay home with my family full time
51%
65%
62%
61%
53
Q. How strongly do you agree or disagree with the following statements?
Malaysia
Singapore
81%
89%
My parenting style is very different from my fathers
72%
84%
54
Q. And how strongly do you agree or disagree with the following statements?
Female
74%
79%
74%
76%
74%
74%
73%
71%
69%
73%
69%
68%
60% 69%
63%
65%
60%
56%
53%59%
Parenting abilities
His life experiences
50%56%
46%52%
Physical strength
Handyman skills
45%
48%
41%
43%
22%
33%
34%
28% 35%
Navigational skills
His attractiveness
20%26%
26%
26%
33%
25%
22%
16%
14%
16%21%
Q. Which of the following would say are the primary things that define men today?
55
Female
68%
70%
62%
60%
62%
65%
60% 67%
54%
58%
51%
66%
47%
58%
42%
40%
40%
38%
40%
38%
40%
35% 46%
His attractiveness
Physical strength
33%
34%
33% 41%
30%
31%
Navigational skills
23%
24%
21%
23%
Handyman skills
Attractiveness of his significant other
Number of sexual conquests
Parenting abilities
Ability to bond over sports
What he eats
The car he drives
52%
19%
20%
17%
21%
15%20%
13% 21%
13%
13%
Q. Which of the following would say are the primary things that define men today?
56
Female
67%
67%
65%
62%
64%
61%
64% 70%
62%
48%
60%
58%
57%
56%
57%63%
55%
59%
46%
50%
41%
41%
Parenting abilities
How much money he makes
40% 48%
36%
49%
Handyman skills
Physical strength
28%33%
26%
29%
20%24%
22%
21%
20%
18%
14%19%
12%18%
13%
14%
9%12%
Q. Which of the following would say are the primary things that define men today?
57
Female
69%
70%
67%
70%
64%
64%
63%
61%
62%
62%
62% 69%
57%
61%
57% 65%
47% 54%
41%
43%
41%
42%
40%
Physical strength
Handyman skills
Power in the workplace
Navigational skills
30%
28%
29%
32%
His attractiveness
29%
32%
22%
19%
20%
19%
19%
19%
16%
14%
What he eats
14%19%
50%
36%42%
36%
35%
Q. Which of the following would say are the primary things that define men today?
58
79%
84%
81%
Men and women are pretty equal today; in general, neither one has it better than the other
76%
80%
67%
Its important for children to identify with their gender (i.e., boys playing sports, girls dressing like princesses)
66%
62%
Men and women dont need to conform to traditional roles and behaviors anymore
65%
65%
63%
59%
62%
60%
59%
46%
It feels like my idea of what it means to be a man is no longer widely accepted in society
47%
39%
37%
88%
38%
39%
78%
66%
55%
54%
52%
47%
59
People are always talking about how difficult women have it, but things are just as hard for men
88%
90%
85%
79%
Its important for children to identify with their gender (i.e., boys playing sports, girls dressing like princesses)
79%
80%
Men and women are pretty equal today; in general, neither one has it better than the other
Men should never show weakness
75%
57%
74%
74%
70%
65%
61%
Traditional gender behaviors for children arent important; if boys want to wear pink and girls want to play with trucks, thats fine with me
62%
Men and women dont need to conform to traditional roles and behaviors anymore
61%
64%
It feels like my idea of what it means to be a man is no longer widely accepted in society
48%
49%
75%
57%
56%
53%
53%
70%
40%
41%
60
75%
79%
85%
Men and women are pretty equal today; in general, neither one has it better than the other
79%
81%
70%
74%
Men and women dont need to conform to traditional roles and behaviors anymore
Its important for children to identify with their gender (i.e., boys playing sports, girls dressing like princesses)
68%
63%
67%
65%
64%
60%
63%
69%
Traditional gender behaviors for children arent important; if boys want to wear pink and girls want to play with trucks, thats fine with me
Traditional male attributes are frowned upon in todays society
Men should never show weakness
50%
39%
44%
43%
It feels like my idea of what it means to be a man is no longer widely accepted in society
44%
87%
42%
40%
59%
53%
53%
51%
51%
61
82%
89%
81%
84%
Men and women are pretty equal today; in general, neither one has it better than the other
81%
82%
73%
68%
Its important for children to identify with their gender (i.e., boys playing sports, girls dressing like princesses)
Men are becoming less dominant in society
67%
63%
66%
67%
Men and women dont need to conform to traditional roles and behaviors anymore
65%
67%
64%
Traditional gender behaviors for children arent important; if boys want to wear pink and girls want to play with trucks, thats fine with me
Men should never show weakness
45%
47%
46%
It feels like my idea of what it means to be a man is no longer widely accepted in society
47%
60%
58%
54%
74%
40%
40%
56%
55%
54%
62
Malaysia
Singapore
41%
40%
38%
70%
60%
54%
61%
60%
42%
52%
34%
68%
55%
52%
26%
27%
67%
61%
49%
66%
53%
43%
35%
48%
43%
37%
42%
32%
37%
69%
60%
56%
71%
62%
56%
58%
25%
37%
42%
44%
63
Countries Combined
China
Balancing the demands of work and family
11%
10%
7%
34%
19%
5%
-25%
30%
8%
2%
-29%
LESS
32%
14%
-34%
36%
20%
-16%
33%
22%
-24%
13%
-16%
Malaysia
Singapore
-23%
-34%
-39%
27%
9%
-6%
-8%
-14%
-12%
-18%
-18%
-23%
12%
1%
1%
-3%
-14%
MORE
Q. How much more or less anxious, if at all, do you think you are about each of the following than your fathers generation when they were your age?
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Female
51%
Fashionable
60%
33%
33%
32%
40%
28%
23%
Tuned in to women
23%
24%
Well rounded
13%
Good parent
19%
8%
10%
Self-centered
Sexist
-19%
-21%
LESS
Q. Compared to your fathers generation, do you feel men today are more or less of each of the following, or about the same?
MORE
65
Female
-15%
Courtship/dating
-1%
-26%
Life in general
-18%
-29%
-20%
-39%
-29%
-39%
Succeeding professionally
-32%
-42%
-24%
-44%
-40%
HARDER
Q. Compared to your fathers generation, do you feel each of the following are easier or harder for men today, or about the same?
EASIER
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