MOHD SULTAN DOMESTIC VIOLENCE TALK 2014324301 Lecture:Group C 12/10/2017 Tutorial:Group B RATHAMANI KANDAIAH (FAMILY LAW LAWYER)
DVA applies to all members of family
At the first instance of violence such as slapping, it is advised to go and make a report. As this will be the encourager if the victim did not do so. The victims reluctance is due to the charge that is also attached to the Penal Code. In terms of psychological trauma, the burden of proof is dif ficult to proof, therefore needs medical evidence. Judges are supposed to advised but nowadays it is the opposite. The use of weapons: power of arrest from the judge. IPO: stop abuse or harassed pending investigation until complete. RASHIDAH (DOMESTIC VIOLENCE SURVIVOR)
Her second marriage is where the violence happened.
At High Court, the decision did not favor her and she was fined RM2k instead for attempt to murder by throwing chili powder to her husband as a defense during the abuse. Fortunately, the decision was reversed and favored her in the appeal. She is now a stronger and successful businesswomen after the tragedy that hit her. IVY JOSIAH (WOMENS AID ORGANISATION/ACTIVIST) Domestic violence perpetrator instills fear. I way of controlling her. When women react to beating, the fear is invoked. The questions that must be asked: is it Systematic? repetitive? Not spontaneous(planned)? In Malaysia, when you make a report, they only investigate that particular report. In contrast with the Australian system where all past charges are chained. The magistrate in Rashidahs case fails to see that she was defending herself instead fined her with RM2k. The police, judiciary and welfare must understand the law and not bring their prejudices along with them. These institutions must be funded well IVY JOSIAH
Substance Institution Culture
Culture is the worst part, which is the influencer. DV is not about stress, it is about power, patriachy. Recent development in DVA is the Emergency Protection Order where a welfare of ficer can issue EPO without the police report(7 days). No need for counseling. But there is now counseling for men. Usually, IPO is general. Now it is specified in terms of the acts that he should not do. The law needs resources to function well. Cotrolling behaviour must be recognized in a relationship as this is a trait. Violence is not a chosen action.
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