you should
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Aims of the Session
• Discuss the purposes of marriage
• Discuss ten things you should know about marriage
• Five points specifically from the Qur‘an and Sunnah
• Five points from experience; which are indicative of the
lessons from the Qur‘an and Sunnah.
• Discuss ten principles of gender interaction
• Discuss the importance of respect in respect to gender
interactions
The foundation must be strong
a great person
with great character
will have a great marriage
Marriage is highly
esteemed in Islam
Marriage is a sacred
covenant, not only
between husband and
wife, but with Allah.
“…They have taken from you a
غللي ظ
ظا كم لمميغثاظقا غ غوأ غ غ
خذذغن لمن ك
sacred covenant?” Surah An-Nisa,
4:21
Way of the
Prophets
The Sunnah of the
A sign of Allah “And We have already sent
messengers before you and Prophet
assigned to them wives and
descendants. And it was not
for a messenger to come
with a sign except by
permission of Allah.”
Surah Ar-Ra’d, 13:38
The story of ‘Umar (r) and Atiqa.
Ibn Mas‘ud reported: The Prophet (ṣalAllāḥu
‘alayḥi wassallam) said:
“O young men, if you are able to
support a wife, then get married.
Verily, it restrains the eyes and
protects the private parts. Whoever
is not able to do so, then must fast
as it is a means of control.”
Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 1806, Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 1400
“Verily, it restrains the eyes and protects the private parts.” This applies to men and
women.
Before marriage; when
choosing your partner
think selfishly; this is your
future. After marriage
think selflessly; be
generous, loving and
caring.
#1 The foundation to A successful
marriage is choosing your partner wisely
• Know the difference between love and lust.
• Istikharah and Istisharah are essential components of a lasting
marriage.
• Compatibility is important; both partners understanding the
purpose of marriage will aid them in overcoming the challenges
with come with marriage.
• If things don’t work out the first time; it means Allah (s) has
prepared someone better for you. Rejection is not a bad thing; it’s a
sign.
• Look closely at the family they’re marrying into and understand
they will be your aid; support and make it your aim to be a source
of happiness for them.
Understa
nd the
purpose
Understand, of
men and marriage The best
women are foundation of a
equal, but successful
appreciate the marriage is
role ‘priorities’ choosing your
play in partner wisely
marriage Laying
the
Framew
ork Good
Men have to character is
take one of greatest
responsibility factors which
as husbands leads to a
and fathers Love and successful
mercy are marriage
two
components
of a
successful
marriage
وهمنن آقياهتهه أ قنن قخل ققق To attain sakīnah
“And among His Signs is this,
To raise a
family
كم هممنن قأنكفهسك كنم
that He created for you wives
لق ك from among yourselves, that
you may find repose in them,
To start a family. It is tied with
the responsibility that a man
The Purposes of
مغمغومدغظة غوغرذحغمظة Marriage To nurture
هإ مقن هفي قذلهقك قلآقياتت
To nurture the
importance of
education in the leadership
له مققنوتم يقتققفك مقكروقن home
The family unit is focused on
The family unit in Islam is
different. Allah is holding us to a
higher standard. We have been
teaching, and learning. The created for one purpose – we are
aim is to be educated and the leaders of the people – we are
educate. The family unit is a people who have to be willing to
framework to raise, nurture give towards society. So, we have
to be stronger, and this begins by
and build a healthy society. protecting the family unit.
#2 Finances are important within a
marriage
• Understand the importance of managing your
finances and learn how to budget.
• Ibn Mas‘ud reported: The Prophet (ṣalAllāḥu ‘alayḥi
wassallam) said:“O young men, if you are able
to support a wife, then get married. Verily, it
restrains the eyes and protects the private
parts. Whoever is not able to do so, then
must fast as it is a means of control.” Ṣaḥīḥ al-
Bukhārī 1806, Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 1400.
ت غبذعكضكهذم أ غذول لغياء غبذعضض يغأ ذكمكروغن غوال ذكمؤذلمكنوغن غوال ذكمؤذلمغنا ك
علن ال ذكمنك غلر غويكلقيكموغن ال مغصل غغة غويكؤذكتوغن ف غويغن ذغهذوغن غلبال ذغمذعكرو ل
المزغغكاغة غويكلطيكعوغن الل مغه غوغركسول غكه أ كذوغلـئلغك غسيغذرغحكمكهكم الل مكه إل مغن
علزيزم غحلكيمم الل مغه غ
“The believing men and believing women are allies of one another. They enjoin what is
Marriage empowered and protected
“The best of you are the best to their families, and I
am the best to my family.”
Sunan At-Tirmidhi 3895, Sahih
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