KRISTIAN DAVE DIVA CRISTEL ESTAMPADOR Human life is marked essentially by sexuality. It is fitting, then, the immediately after the Commandment on the respect for life, there should come that which fosters proper respect for our sexuality – even before the social imperatives concerning possessions and truthful communication. Human sexuality is God’s gift to us. We are created according to the image precisely as “male or female.” Itis not in lonely solitude but rather in relating to others through our sexual natures that we share in God’s life of love and creativity. Despite of misuses and misunderstandings, our human sexuality is something g good! It is a God-given power for love and generativity that we must learn to gradually integrate ever more fully within our total selves. To live and associate with others in interpersonal relationships, respecting their sexuality and proper bodily expressions, is the vocation of every disciple of Christ. 1.) In the relationships between men and women according to their social status. 2.) In regard to interior lustful dispositions of the heart. IThe Sixth Commandment The sixth Commandment, “You shall not commit adultery” (Ex 20:14; Dt 5:17), seems simple and direct. It forbids married persons from entering into sexual union with someone other than their spouse. But for the ancient Israelites, this Commandment had more social significance than sexual. Its aim was to protect the family, the absolutely necessary basis of society the family and marriage were viewed directly I terms of the two Genesis creation narratives. God created man male and female so that the man would not be alone, and multiply and fill the earth. Sexuality, therefore, is for both human completeness and procreation. Thus while focusing on the specific relationship of marriage; the sixth commandment actually touches upon the very nature of human sexuality, the entire range of man-woman relationships, and our common vocation to love and communion. Sexualityis today understood in a more complete and integral sense than in the past when the focus was almost completely on the sex act. Today sexuality signifies an essential dimension of the whole person, by which he/she enters into the relationship with others. It thus touches every aspect of personal life, and has to be developed by all men and women just as life itself must be. This wider meaning of sexuality is reaffirmed by the Sacred Congregation for Education: “Sexuality is a fundamental component of personality, one of its modes of being, of manifestation, of communicating with others, of feeing, of expressing and of living human love. Therefore it is an integral part of the development of the personality”. “It is, in fact, from sex that the human person receives the characteristics which, on the biological, psychological and spiritual levels, make that the person a man or a woman, and thereby largely condition his or her progress toward maturity and insertion into society” The basis for this wider understanding of human sexuality is, of course, creation. Man and woman constitute two modes of “imaging” God and they fully accomplish such a vocation not only as a single person, but also as couples, which are communities of love. 1.) God gives man and woman an equal personal dignity. 2.) Man and woman are both different and complementary. 3.) Man and woman are called to mutual gift of itself, to reciprocity. 4.) Sexuality is for love. 1.) God, the personal loving Creator. 2.) His creating act through love. 3.) The human persons created in His likeness precisely as man and woman for love. This Christian view of sexuality and marriage is supported and developed by the biblical narrative of God’s relationship with Israel, His “Chosen People” through salvation history. First there was the simple innocence of original creation when “the man and his wife were both naked, yet they left no shame” (Gn 2:25). But sins entered and bought disorder into the couple’s relationship to God and to each other. The sexual relationship, while remaining fundamentally good, often became a divisive force. Instead of feeling joy at the unique difference of the other sex, the partners experienced the selfish desire of possession. From a natural power of outward self-giving in genuine love, the human sex drive became pen to the temptation of turning back on its self-centered hedonism. Again, when questioned by the Pharisees about divorce, Jesus reiterated the Creator’s original meaning of sexuality. “A man leaves his father and mother and clings to his wife, and the two of them become one body’. Thus they are no longer two but one flesh (Gn 2:24. Therefore, let no man separate what God has joined” St.Paul used this same text (Gn 2:24) to teach that Christian marriage takes on a new meaning. It symbolizes the intimate love relationships between Christ and the Church. “Husband, love your wives, as Christ loved his Church. He gave himself up to her. In any case, each one should love his wife as himself, the wife for her part showing respect for her husband. This Pauline image of Christian image rest firmly on the conviction that our bodies are members of Christ. been purchased, and at a price. So, glorify God in your body” (1Cor 6:1-20) Inpaying the price of our redemption, Jesus Christ wished most of all to restore human relationships to what God intended before original sin distorted and corrupted them. This restoration pertains not only to our relationship with God, but especially to the mutual interrelationships between men and women within the community and in family life. By word and example, Jesus revealed the true nature of our human sexuality and of marriage. More importantly, through his own Resurrection, Jesus redeemed our whole persons, with all our instincts, powers and relationships, including our sexuality. Sexuality and marriage, then, are not just biological facts for Christians. Rather, renewed by God’s love through Christ Jesus in the Holy Spirit, they are real personal power and a perduring state for love, a love which develops, heals, and creates. “In the light of the mystery of Christ, sexuality appears to us as a vocation to realize that love which the Holy Spirit instills in the hearts of the redeemed.” The Sixth Commandment, then, when viewed through the eyes of faith in the Risen Christ, far from restricting us, actually liberates from two “tyrannies.”
1. The tyranny of puritanical attitudes.
2. The tyranny of indecency. Breaking through both tyrannies, the Christian view of sexuality and marriage presents the dignity and authentic freedom of single and married life that is truly fulfilling, desirable, and fruitful. The high human costs of adultery and of divorce are often covered up by phrases like ‘having an affair.” In reality, adultery gravely injuries the life and character of the individual married persons involved, as well as the community. Commitments are broken, suspicion and anger aroused, person trust betrayed, relationships destroyed, children threatened and the whole social fabric of the community weakened. Despite all sexist propaganda in the mass media, real human freedom and love are not found in “free sex”. In rejecting polygamy, incest, and uncommitted free unions (“living-in”), the commandment guides us away from such false, ruinous attempts to fulfill our yearning for true love and communion. But Christ is ever mindful of our human frailty, and the many temptations constantly bombarding us. His grace is ever present. God’s fidelity to the covenant holds firm and with it our human covenants; in them alone will we find our true human freedom love. “You shall not covet your neighbor’s wife” ( Ex 20:17) completes the Sixth Commandment by going to the interior root and sources of disorders of the flesh: covetous of the heart. “From the mind stem evil designs – murder, adulterous conduct, fornication, stealing, false witness, blasphemy. These are the things that make a man impure.” Such has been the pattern down through the ages: human covetousness has been the radical source of sin that alienates us from God and our fellowmen. Three traditional forms are cited in St. John’s classic text. “All that is in the world, lust of the flesh, enticements for the eye, pride of life, is not from the father” (1 Jn 2:16) The Ninth Commandment, of course, also rejects the effects of this covetousness, and the systematized covetousness featured in so much of today’s Philippine consumerist, sexiest society. It calls us to acknowledge our deep inbred lust for possessions and power, and to venture out in an “exodus’ away from the “flesh spots of Egypt,” the house of slavery, toward the liberation of respect and solidarity with one another. Positively,what is called for is purity of heart, or the virtue of chastity. All Christians have the vocation to chastity. Chastity here refers to the wholesome integration of one’s sexuality within one’s person. This creates in us an inner harmony and unity of body and spirit that grounds our integrity as a persons and in our self-giving in love. Inthe Christian view, chastity by no means signifies rejection of human sexuality or lack of esteem for it: rather, it signifies spiritual energy capable of defending love from the perils of selfishness and aggressiveness, and able to advance it towards its full realization.. Chastity deals with our external acts but precisely as expressing the inner “yearnings of our heart.” At the root, purity of heart is a positive power for authentic human freedom and love, not a repressive denial of the true value and exercise of our sexuality. This is proclaimed in the Sixth Beatitudes, “Blessed are the pure-hearted, for they shall see God” (Mt 5:8). The “pure of heart” designates those who direct their hearts, bodies and mind toward God, in charity, or purity of heart; in chastity, or purity of body; an in orthodoxy, or purity of faith. But in order for the value of sexuality to reach its full realization, education for chastity is absolutely essential, for it is a virtue that develops a person’s authentic maturity and makes him or her capable of respecting and fostering the nuptial meaning” of the body. Fruit of the grace of God and of our cooperation, chastity tends to harmonize the different components of the human person, and to overcome the frailty of human race, marked by sin, so that each person can follow the vocation to which God has called. What is of utmost importance in the importance and practice of chastity is motivation. This means taking seriously our imagination, which is the key factor in arousing or controlling the human sexual drive. It means focusing on the values of our sexuality which ground the moral norms – values such as: personal growth in interpersonal dialogue and the gift of self in love, creative fecundity and the transmission of human life. Education in love as self-giving is also the indispensable premise for parents called to give their children a clear and delicate sex education. Faced with a culture that largely reduces human sexuality. An impoverished way by linking it solely with the body and with selfish pleasure, their education service must be training truly and fully personal: for sexuality is an enrichment of the whole person body, emotions and soul – and it manifest its inmost meaning in leading the person to the gift of self in love. The government’s “value education and “moral reform” programs are valiant attempts to work toward goals. But our Christian faith, confirmed by 2,000 years of Christian history, shows conclusively that all such human efforts will be ineffective without a deep spiritual renewal. For the Catholic Filipino this involves fostering an active, personal and community prayer life, love for the Eucharist, reception of the sacrament of Reconciliation, and devotion to the Blessed Virgin Mary and to other saints who excelled in the practice of chastity. since chastity or purity of heart is directed toward love, it pertains directly to all persons according to their different states of life. This includes both married and single persons. Chastity for the married consist in fidelity to their marriage vows, and to their respect and reverence for what is good and lovely in their marriage. Self-control is demanded by chastity of both single persons and of married couples. Regarding contraception, the church has insisted that “marriage and conjugal love are by their nature ordained toward the begetting and educating of children.” Hence, while rejecting artificial means of contraception and birth control, the Church encourages natural family planning to ensure that the procreation, nurture and education of the children might be achieved in a truly human and Christian responsibility.” The parents themselves must ultimately make this judgment, in the sight of God, and with Christian consciences enlightened by the teaching of the church, reckoning with both the material and spiritual conditions of the times, as well as their state in life. Chastityfor both married and single also combats the search for solidarity sexual pleasure in masturbation. This complex and delicate problem has repercussions on the integral growth of the person. Masturbation is an abuse of our sexual powers because it lacks the sexuality’s essential relationship which is ordered towards self-giving love and the service of life according to God’s design. Often it is a result of deficient affective growth, and/or a symptom of much deeper personal problems. “Understanding human sexuality correctly includes recognition of heterosexuality as normative, while respecting the personhood of those with homosexual tendencies.” Homosexuality represents another grave impediment to the integral sexual growth of a person. St. Paul condemns both male and female homosexual acts as God’s punishment for idolatry, worship of unnatural lust. But care must be taken to distinguish between a condition of homosexual orientation, for which the homosexual cannot be held responsible, and homosexual acts. Catholic sexual morality is based clearly on the doctrines that: 1) God created every human person precisely as male and female in His own image and likeness; 2) That the Risen Christ has healed and perfected our whole persons, including our sexuality. 3) The Holy Spirit, received from God, indwelling in our bodies. Presented by: GLADYS LYN DIEL CRISTEL ESTAMPADOR KRISTIAN DAVE DIVA
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