COMMANDMENTS
OF GOOD
PARENTING
Being a parent can be one of the most rewarding and
fulfilling experiences of your life, but that doesn't mean
it's easy. No matter what age your child/children is/are,
your work is never done. To be a good parent, you need
to know how to make your children feel valued and
loved, while teaching them the difference between right
and wrong. At the end of the day, the most important
thing is to create a nurturing environment where your
children feel like they can thrive and develop into
confident, independent, and caring adults.
Love Your Child
It's important that your communication with your children goes both ways. You shouldn't
just be there to enforce rules, but to listen to your children when they are having a
problem. You have to be able to express interest in your children and involve yourself in
their life. You should create an atmosphere in which your children can come to you with a
problem, however large or small.
Make time for your children
Though you may think you have already molded and raised your child into the
person he or she will become by the time your child dons his or her graduation
cap, this is far from true. Your parenting will have a life-long effect on your child
and you should always give your child the love and affection he needs, even if
you're hundreds of miles away. While you won't always be a constant daily
presence in your child's life, you should always let your children know that you
care about them and that you'll be there for them, no matter what.
Warnings
*Do not be afraid to be a parent. Do your best, be their friend, but never let
them forget you are their parent, not a collaborator.
*While praising kids, focus on effort and not end results to avoid raising praise-
junkies.
*Parenting does not stop when a child grows up. Being a good parent remains a
life-long role. But remember that once they become adults, the decisions they
make in life are ultimately theirs with their consequences.
*Do not strictly follow the parental behavioral stereotypes of your culture, race,
ethnic group, family, or other defining factor. Please do not believe that there is
only one way to raise a child.
*Never over-indulge a child. It can lead to stubborn and irresponsible behavior.