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IMPORTANCE OF ADJUSTMENT IN FAMILY

RELATIONSHIP
Three Kinds of Human Relationship

3. Personal-
1. Personal 2. Functional
Functional
relationship- Relationship-
Relationship-
• a person-to- • a relationship • a functional
person with a person relationship
relationship which is set with the
considered aside or personal
ideal. forgotten once element brought
he or she is no into
longer useful. consideration
out of respect
for human
dignity.
 The Teenager Relating to Parents

Insights that may help your relationship with your parents be healthy and
harmonious.
1. Parents are significant people in the lives of most adolescents, in part
they control important resources.
2. Parents may dispense or withhold money, set limits on adolescents’
social life, and establish rules of governance for the household.
3. Parents provide stability for lives that are encountering many changes.
4. The parent-adolescence relationship is one factor that determines how
the adolescent will resolve the identity crisis.
5. During this period, parents and adolescence often become more
physically and psychologically distant.
6. Parent- adolescent conflict increases between childhood and early
adolescence.
7. Parents and adolescents are in distressed relationship characterized by
emotional coldness and frequent outburst of anger and conflicts.
 Parental Authority & Parental Love

Parental Authority Parental Love

•Enforcing Authority •Giving Guidance

•Emphasizing norms •Sharing their
of conduct what is children’s joys and
right or wrong. sorrows.
•Planning their •Fulfilling their
children’s future. responsibilities or
obligations.
 Relationship with Peers

Importance of Keeping Friends

A teenager on the way to maturity
needs friends. Every adolescent must be
open to friendship.
The value of this human relationship
cannot be overestimated particularly in
this stage of life.
 Some tips on how to win and keep friends.

1. Have new acquaintances and meet people.

2. Join activities that offer you to meet people and gain friends.
3. Be a good conversationalist. Start the conversation when you meet
someone for a friend.
4. Smile always.
5. Be a good listener. Pay attention and show interest in what the other
person is saying.
6. Don’t be possessive. Don’t deny your friend the opportunity of
meeting new people.
7. Avoid criticizing. If you don’t have a good thing to tell, it is better
not to say anything at all.
8. Practice good manners. They are polite ways social behavior.
9. Be sincere. A sincere person is attractive to others because he makes
people feel at ease.
Making friends is a bonding with people who are
willing to:

1. Give emotional or even financial support if needed.

2. Inspire and encourage you to do what is right and good for you.
3. Understand you when your family cannot or when you cannot
understand yourself.
4. Sometimes cry and many times laugh with you.
5. Tell honestly your mistakes no matter what happens.
6. Share with you his/her blessing or even make you realize your own
blessing.
7. Sympathize with you when you have problems or failure.
8. Take care of you when you are sick or when you feel depressed.
9.Enjoy being with you.
 It should not be difficult to find a sincere and true
friend. But each one of us has standards and set of
expectations that serve as basis for our choice of
friends. A friend who stays through the good times and
the bad, as well, can be considered a treasure.
Friendship should be nurtured and deepened so
that it will become strong. There are many ways to
deepen friendship that could withstand the test of time,
and even distance.
Only true friendships remain. Being a true friend
brings out the goodness of one’s person.
Deepening Friendships
• Having constant communication
• Sharing experiences or just talking about what happened
during the day.
• Sharing good times together.
• Demonstrating affection, making some surprises
at times.
• Being loyal to friend.
• Being around in times of needs and difficulties.
• Looking beyond what people say about them.
• Taking friends as they are.
Lasting Friendship
Thank you
and
Good Day!!!