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BACA BUKU INI KETIKA LO …
BINGUNG SOAL PASSION
1. Self Driving (Rhenald Kasali)
2. Now Discover Your Strength (Marcus Buckingham)
3. Your Job Is Not Your Career (Rene Suhardono)
4. The Element (Ken Robinson)
5. So Good They Can’t Ignore You (Cal Newport)
6. Ikigai: The Japanese Secret to a Long and Happy Live (Hector Garcia & Francesc
Miralles)
7. Leave your mark (Aliza Licht)
8. Start With Why (Simon Sinek)
9. Find Your Why (Simon Sinek)
10. The Code of Extraordinary Mind (Vishen Lakhiani)
11. The Path Made Clear (Oprah)
12. Roadmap (The Roadtrip Nation)
13. Designing Your Life: How to Build a Well-lived, Joyful Life (Bill Burnett)

PENGEN MEMAHAMI PASANGAN LO LEBIH BAIK LAGI

1. Five Love Languages (Gary Chapman)
2. Four Things Women Want From A Men (A. R. Bernard)
3. Make it Work (Tony Gaskin Jr.)
4. Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus (John Gray)
5. Personality Plus (Florence littauer)
6. Understanding the purpose and power of Man (Myles Munroe)
7. Understanding the purpose and power of Woman (Myles Munroe)
8. Boundaries in Dating (Henry Cloud and John Townsend)
9. The Sacred Search (Gary Thomas)
10. ​Why Men Don't Listen & Women Can't Read Maps​ (Allan Pease, Barbara Pease)
11. Loveology (John Mark Comer)
12. Reflections of a Man (Mr. Amari Soul)

JATUH CINTA
1. Love, Sex, and Dating (Andy Stanley)
2. The art of seduction (robert greene)
3. No More Silly Love Songs: A Realist’s Guide to Romance (Anouchka Grose)
4. Why Do Women Write More Letters Than They Post? (Darian Leader)
5. Beyond Boundaries (DR. John Townsend)
6. The Art of Loving (Erich Fromm)
NGERASA SUNTUK BERKARYA
1. Keep Going (Austion Kleon)
2. The War of Art : Winning The Inner Creative Battle (Steven Pressfield)
3. Steal Like An Artist (Austin Kleon)
4. Creative Confidence (Tom Kelley)
5. Big Magic (Elizabeth Gilbert)
6. What I Wish I Knew When I Was 20 (Tina Seelig)
7. The Artisan Soul (Erwin McManus)
8. Flow (Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi)
9. Grit (Angela Duckworth)
10. Can’t Hurt Me (David Goggins)

BARU MULAI BELAJAR INVESTASI SAHAM

1. Anak Muda MIliarder Saham (Andika Sutoro Putra)
2. Investor Blueprint (Ryan Filbert)
3. The Warren Buffett Way (Robert G. Hagstrom)
4. Warren Buffett Accounting Book (Stig Brodersen & Preston Pysh)
5. Who Wants to be a Smiling Investor (Lukas Setia Atmaja)
6. A Random Walk Down Wall Street (Burton Gordon Malkiel)
7. Smart Traders not Gamblers (Ellen May)
8. Jurus Cuan Investasi Saham - Edisi Kelima (Desmond Wira)
9. The Intelligent Investor (Benjamin graham)
10. Value Investing: Beat the market in five minutes! (Teguh Hidayat)
11. Invested (Danielle Town)
12. The Calm Investor (Teguh Hidayat)
13. Yuk Nabung Saham (Nicky Hogan)
14. Technical Analysis for Mega Profit (Edianto Ong)
15. Technical Analysis Explained (Martin Pring)
16. Sukses Berinvestasi Ala Buffett (James Pardoe)
17. How To Make Money in Stocks (William J O’Neil)
18. Rich Dad, Poor Dad (Robert T. Kiyosaki)
19. Investory (Andhika Diskartes)

PENGEN BISA FINANCIALLY INDEPENDENT

1. Untuk Indonesia Yang Kuat, 100 Langkah Untuk Tidak Miskin (Ligwina Hananto)
2. Invested (Danielle Town)
3. Rich Dad Poor Dad (Robert T Kiyosaki)
4. Think and Grow Rich (Napoleon Hill)
5. The Principles of personal finance (Jouska)
6. You Are A Badass At Making Money (Jen Sincero)
 7. Financial Revolution (Tung Desem Waringin)

MAU MULAI BISNIS SENDIRI

1. Built To Sell: Creating A Business That Can Thrive Without You (John Warrilow)
2. Start with WHY (Simon Sinek)
3. Chairul Tanjung Si Anak Singkong (Tjahja Gunawan Diredja)
4. Disruption (Rhenald Kasali)
5. Good to Great: Why Some Companies Make the Leap and Others Don't (James C.
Collins)
6. Running Lean(Ash Maurya)
7. Belajar goblok dari Bob sadino
8. Shoe Dog: A Memoir by the Creator of Nike (Phil Knight)
9. The Hockey Stick Principles (Boby Martin)
10. Zero To One (Peter Thiel)
11. The Monocle Guide to Good Business (Monocle Editor)
12. The E-Myth (Michael Gerber)
13. Done is better than perfect (Denny Santoso)
14. Blue Ocean Strategy (W. Chan Kim)
15. The $100 Startup (Chris Guillebeau)
16. Lean startup
17. Never Too Young to Become a Billionaire (Yasa Singgih)
18. Bad Blood (John Carreyrou)

BIOGRAFI/AUTOBIOGRAFI
1. Man of Honor: Kehidupan, Semangat, dan Kearifan - William Soeryadjaya (Teguh S.P &
Harmanto E. D.)
2. Living Sacrifice - Dato’ Sri Prof. DR. Tahir (Alberthiene Endah)
3. The Passion of My Life - Dr. Ir. Ciputra (Alberthiene Endah)
4. Manusia Ide - Mochtar Riady (otobiografi)
5. Losing My Virginity (Richard Branson)
6. When Breath Becomes Air (Paul Kalanithi)
7. Becoming (Michelle Obama)
8. Benjamin franklin: an american life (walter isaacson)
9. Man Of Honor (William Soeryadjaya)
10. Trillion Dollar Coach (Eric Schmidt, Jonathan Rosenberg, Alan Eagle)
11. A Child Called “It” (Dave Pelzer)
12. Mimpi Sejuta Dollar (Merry Riana)
13. Kerja Tuntas, Kerja Ikhlas (Sandiaga S. Uno)
14. Elon Musk (Ashlee Vance)
15. Shoe Dog​ - Phil Knight
16. My Life in France​ - Julia Child
MAU JADI CONTENT CREATOR & GOOD DIGITAL MARKETER
1. Crushing It (Gary Vaynerchuk)
2. Show Your Work (Austin Kleon)
3. Jab Jab Right Hook (Gary Vaynerchuk)
4. Lo ngerti siapa gue (Sophia Mega)
5. Perennial Seller (Ryan Holiday)
6. The New Rules of Marketing and PR (David Meerman Scott)
7. Dotcom Secrets (Russel Bruns)
8. The Conversion Code (Chris Smith)

LAGI BINGUNG PERIHAL MASA DEPAN

1. The Alchemist - Paulo Coelho
2. 21 lessons for 21st Century (Yuval Noah Harari)
3. Kodok pun Bisa Jadi Kerbau (Agung Adiprasetyo)
4. Factfulness (Hans Rosling)
5. To Have or to Be? (Erich Fromm)
6. Filosofi Teras (Henry Manampiring)
7. The Daily Stoic (Ryan Holiday)
8. Enlightenment Now (Steven Pinker)

PENGEN COBA HIDUP MINIMALIST

1. The Life Changing Magic of Tidying Up (Marie Kondo)
2. Goodbye, Things (Fumio Sasaki)
3. Seni hidup minimalis (Francine Jay)
4. Zen Habit (Leo Babauta)
5. The Simple Guide to a Minimalist Life( Leo Babauta)
6. Minimalism : Live a Meaningful Life (Joshua Fields Millburn & Ryan Nicodemus)
7. Menuju Rumah Minim Sampah (DK Wardhani)

MAU BIKIN TIM YANG KEREN

1. Herding Tigers : Be The Leader That Creative People Need (Todd Henry)
2. How To Win Friends And Influence People (Dale Carnegie)
3. Creativity.inc (Ed Catmull)
4. Rework (Jason Fried)
5. Turning Adversity into Opportunity (James Kouzes, Barry Posner)
6. The Rules of Management (Richard Templar)
7. Trillion Dollar Coach (Eric Schmidt, Jonathan Rosenberg, Alan Eagle)
8. Bring Your Human To Work (Erica Keswin)
9. Powerful (Patty McCord)
10. The 5 Languages of Appreciation in The Workplace (Gary Chapman, Paul White)
11. Multipliers (Liz Wiseman with Greg McKeown)

INGIN PAHAM EKONOMI

 1. Talk to My Daughter About the Economy (Yanis Varoufakis)
2. Principles of Navigating Big Debt Crises (Ray Dalio)
3. Naked economics (charles wheelan)
4. Debt (david graeber)
5. Asal-Usul Kekayaan (Martin Suryajaya)
6. Economics: The User’s Guide (Ha-Joon Chang)

SUSAH JUALAN
1. SALES EQ : Bagaimana ULTRA-HIGH PERFORMERS memanfaatkan intelegensi
Emosional untuk memenangkan penjualan (Jeb Blount)
2. The Art of War - Sun Tzu (Building strategy)
3. Skill with people ( les giblin )
4. The art of dealing with people ( les giblin )
5. Marketing Revolution ( Tung Desem Waringin )
6. All Marketers Are Liars (Seth Godin)
7. Sell or be Sold (Grant Cardone)
8. Unbranding (scott stratten)
9. Way of The Wolf, Straight Line Selling (Jordan Belfort)

PENGEN BELAJAR STORYTELLING

1. The Storyteller Secret (Carmine Gallo)
2. Do Story: How To Tell Your Story So The World Listen (Bobette Buster)
3. The Anatomy of Story (John Truby)
4. The Storytelling Edge (Joe Lazauskas & Shane Snow)
5. Building a Storybrand (Donald Miller)
6. All Marketers Tell Stories (Seth Godin)
7. Unleash The Power of Storytelling (Rob Biesenbach)

BUTUH BACAAN BAGUS UNTUK KESEHATAN MENTAL

1. Options B (Sheryl Sandberg)
2. The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck (Mark Manson)
3. Filosofi Teras (Henry Manampiring)
4. Search Inside Yourself (Chade-Meng Tan)
5. The Asshole Survival Guide (Robert Sutton)
6. Who Moved My Cheese (Spencer Johnson)
7. Man's Search of Meaning (Viktor Frankl)
8. The Art of a Good Life (Rolf Dobelli)
9. The Gifts of Imperfection: Let Go of Who You Think You're Supposed to Be and
Embrace Who You Are (Brené Brown)
10. Reasons to Stay Alive (Matt Haig)
11. Mindset (Carol S. Dweck)
12. The power of Positive Thinking (Norman Vincent Peale)
 13. Everything is Fcked (Mark Manson)
14. Emotionally Healthy Spiritually (Peter Scazzero)
15. Women Living Well (Courtney Joseph)
16. Boundaries ( Dr. Hendry Cloud &..)
17. Love for Imperfect Things (Haemin Sunim)\
18. The Things You Can See Only When You Slow Down (Haemin Sunim)
19. Si Cacing dan Kotoran Kesayangannya (Ajahn Brahm)
20. Anger (Thich Nhat Hanh)
21. Meditation and Mindfulness (Andy Puddicombie)
22. Unlimited Power (Anthony Robbins)
23. Quiet (Susan Cain)
24. Lost Connections (Johann Hari)
25. Get Some Headspace (Andy Puddicombie)
26. Joyful: The Surprising Power of Ordinary Things to Create Extraordinary Happiness
(Ingrid Fetell Lee)
27. Awaken The Giant Within (Anthony Robbins)
28. The Five People You Meet in Heaven (Mitch Albom)
29. Tuesdays With Morrie (Mitch Albom)

JADI CAREGIVER
1. Tuesdays With Morrie (Mitch Albom)
2. The Anatomy of Dependence (Takeo Doi)

MERASA KESEPIAN
1. The Anatomy Of Loneliness (Teal Swan)
2. Selfish gene (richard dawkins)
3. On the origin of species (charles darwin)
4. Brief history of time (stephen hawking)
5. Gun germs and steel (jared diamond)
6. Sixth extinction (elizabeth kolbert)
7. Demon haunted world (carl sagan)
8. Moral animal (robert wright)
9. Short history of nearly everything (bill bryson)
10. Lost Connections (Johann Hari)

MENCARI MENTOR
1. Forget a Mentor, Find a Sponsor (Sylvia Ann Hewlett)

PENGEN IMPROVE TIME MANAGEMENT/PRODUCTIVITY

1. Make Time (Jake Knapp and John Zeratsky)
2. 7 Habit (stephen covey)
3. Eat the ugly frog first ( brian tracy )
 4. The Pomodoro Technique(Francesco Cirillo)
5. Miracle Morning (Hal Elrod)
6. Why Procrastinators Procrastinate - Tim Urban, Wait by Why Blog​ read here
7. Getting Things Done (David Allen)
8. Master your time master your life (Bryan tracy)
9. The power of habit (charles duhigg)
10. Productivity project (chris bailey)
11. Atomic habit (james clear)
12. Compound effect (darren hardy)
13. Flow (Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi)
14. Measure what Matters (John Doerr)
15. Emotional Intelligence (Daniel Goleman)
16. A Whole New Mind (Daniel Pink)
17. Drive (Daniel Pink)
18. Make Your Bed (William McRaven)
19. 12 Rules for Life (Jordan B. Peterson)

NGERASA KURANG SABAR & PENGEN NGONTROL EMOSI

1. Enemies of the Heart (Andy Stanley)
2. Ego is the Enemy (Ryan Holiday)
3. Anger (Thich Nhat Hanh)
4. Emotion for Success (Josua Iwan Wahyudi)

RUNNING BUSINESS & BEKERJA - LEBIH PRODUKTIF & EFEKTIF, LESS STRESS, BIKIN
HAPPY
1. Rework (Jason Fried & David Heinemeier)
2. The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People (Stephen R. Covey)
3. Remote: Office not required (Jason Fried & David Heinemeier)
4. It Doesn’t Have To Be Crazy at Work (Jason Fried & David Heinemeier)
5. Power of Habit (Charles Duhigg).
6. Smarter faster better ( Charles duhigg)
7. Rest: Why You Get More Done When You Work Less
8. Atomic Habits (James Clear)
9. 30 DAYS : Change your habits,Change your life (Marc Reklau)
10. Micro Resilience (Bonnie St. John & Allen Haines)
11. The One Thing (Gary W. Keller and Jay Papasan)
12. 4 hour workweek (tim ferris)
13. Stress Less Accomplish more (Emily Fletcher)
14. When (Daniel Pink)
15. Deep Work (Cal Newport)
16. Wish it want it do it (brian griffin)
 17. The 80/20 Principle (Richard Koch)

BOOKS ABOUT ADVERTISING

1. Seducing Strangers (Joshua Weltman)
2. Contagious (Jonah Berger)
3. You are a Brand (Catherine Kaputa)
4. Brand Famous (Linzi Boyd)
5. The Brand Mapping Strategy (Karen Leland)
6. Top Of Mind (John Hall)
7. Hey Whipple, Squeeze This (Luke Sullivan)

PARENTING & EARLY EDUCATION

1. Kudidik Diriku Demi Mendidik Anakku (Toge Aprilianto)
2. Saatnya Melatih Anakku Berpikir (Toge Aprilianto)
3. Teach Like Finland (Timothy Dale Walker)
4. The whole brain child (Daniel J. Siegel)
5. No Drama Discipline
6. How to talk so kids will listen and listen so kids will talk
7. Bringing Up Bébé: One American Mother bu Discovers the Wisdom of French Parenting
(Pamela Druckerman)
8. 5 Things every parent needs to know about their KIDS & SEX (Anne Marrie Miller)
9. Sibling Without Rivalry (Adele Faber & Elaine Mazlish)
10. Nanny 911
11. Ayah Edy Menjawab
12. Ayah Edy Punya Cerita
13. An Introduction to Philosopical Logic (A.C. Grayling)
14. The God Delusion (Richard Dawkins)
15. The 5 Love Language of Your Family (Gary Chapman)

TO MAKE SURE HE IS THE ONE / EVALUATING YOUR RELATIONSHIP RIGHT NOW

1. Reflections of A Man (Mr. Amari Soul) - i can give u a copy of the e-book. Just send me
an email: ​jvjevica@gmail.com
2. Anti Panik Mempersiapkan Pernikahan (Tiga Generasi)
3. The Man God Has For You (Stephan Labossiere)
4.

PENASARAN GIMANA MANAGE ROCK BAND

1. Supermensch (Shep Gordon)

MERASA GAGAL
1. Little book of Contentment (Leo Babauta)
2. David and Goliath: Underdogs, Misfits, and the Art of Battling Giant (Malcolm Gladwell)
 3. Mindset (carol s dweck)
4. Brave Not Perfect (Reshma Saujani)

BARU MULAI BELAJAR MASAK

1. Clean Eating (Inge Tumiwa Bachrens)
2. 4 Ingredients : More Than 400 Recipes With Less Than 4 Ingredients (Kim McCosker)
3. Flavors of Indonesia (William Wongso)

KOMUNIKASI STUFF
1. Easy Peasy : People Skill For Life (Allan Pease & Barbara Pease)
2. How to win friends and influence people (dale carnegie)
3. We Need To Talk (Celeste Headlee)
4. Crucial conversation

LAGI NYARI TUJUAN HIDUP

1. Choose joy because happiness isn’t enough (Kay Warren)
2. Purpose Driven Life (Rick Warren)
3. 12 Rules For Life (Jordan B. Peterson)

LAGI MENTOK DALAM PERNIKAHAN

1. Cherish (Gary Thomas)
2. For Marriage Woman Only (Tony Evans)
3. The 4 Seasson Marriage (Gary Chapman)

CARA MIKIR/DECISION MAKING STUFF

1. Black Swan (Nicolas Taleb)
2. Thinking Fast and Slow (Daniel Kahneman)
3. Predictably Irrational (Dan Ariely)
4. Thinking in bets (Annie Duke)
5. Fooled by Randomness (Nicolas Taleb)
6. When (Daniel Pink)
7. The Art of Thinking Clearly (Rolf Dobelli)
8. Start With Why (Simon Sinek)

MAU BELAJAR TENTANG/MENDALAMI STOICISM

1. Filosofi Teras (Henry Manampiring)
2. How to Be A Stoic (Massimo Pigliucci)
3. The Daily Stoic (Ryan Holiday)
4. Meditations (Marcus Aurelius)

PERLU BACAAN RINGAN UNTUK BIKIN KETAWA

1. Lobster is the Best Medicine: A Collection of Comics about Friendship (Liz Climo)
2. Seriously… I’m Kidding (Ellen Degeneres)
 3. Born a crime (trevor noah)

MASTERY
1. Outliers (malcolm gladwell)
2. Peak (anders ericsson)
3. Mastery (robert greene)
4. Talent code (daniel coyle)
5. Talent is overrated (geoff calvin)

SERING MENGELUH DAN BUTUH ALASAN UNTUK BERSYUKUR

1. I am Malala - The girl who stood up for education and was shot by the taliban (Malala
Yousafzai)
2. Selimut Debu (Agustinus Wibowo)
3. A River in Darkness - One Man’s Escape from North Korea (Masaji Ishikawa)
4. Dark Star Safari - Overland from Cairo to Cape Town (Paul Theroux)
5. Barking up the right tree (brian griffin)
6. Burung Berkicau (A. de Mello SJ)
7. The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck (Mark Manson)
8. Choose Joy because happiness isn’t enough (Kay warren)

MAU TAHU/BELAJAR TENTANG FEMINISME

1. Menjadi Perempuan: Kumpulan Esai (Magdalene)
2. Lean In​ - Sheryl Sandberg

MAU TAHU/BELAJAR TENTANG SAINS & TEKNOLOGI

1. Sapiens (Yuval Noah Harari)
2. Homo Deus (Yuval Noah Harari)
3. 21 Lessons for the 21st Century (Yuval Noah Harari)
4. How to Change Your Mind (Michael Pollan)
5. Blueprint (Nicholas Christakis)
6. Life 3.0 (Max Tegmark)
7. Conscious (Annaka Harris)
8. Physics of the Future (Dr. Michio Kaku)
9. Superintelligence (Nick Bostrom)
10. Rational Optimist​ - Matt Ridley
11. The Future of Humanity (Michio Kaku)
12. Astrophysics for People in a Hurry (Neil deGrasse Tyson)
13. Cosmos (Carl Sagan)
14. The Demon-Haunted World (Carl Sagan)
15. The Selfish Gene (Richard Dawkins)
16. Science in the Soul (Richard Dawkins)
17. 1984 (George Orwell)
 18. A Brief History of Time (Stephen Hawking)
19. I Contain Multitudes (Ed Yong)
20. The Elegant Universe (Brian Greene)
21. Guns, Germs, & Steel (Jared Diamond)

DESIGN
1. Change by Design​ - Tim Brown
2. How to Think Like a Great Graphic Designer​ - Debbie Millman

LEADERSHIP
1. First, Break All the Rules​ - Gallup Press
2. Applied Empathy​ - Michael Ventura
3. Developing the Leader within You- John Maxwell

SELF DEVELOPMENT
1. The 15 Invaluable Laws of Growth - John Maxwell

KEEP IT UP GUYS!