Say No

To
Bullying
Because it
is NOT
COOL!
Wulan Mokobombang, M.Psi., Psikolog
 Bullying
adalah...
perilaku tidak menyenangkan baik secara
verbal, fisik, ataupun sosial di dunia nyata
maupun dunia maya yang membuat seseorang
merasa tidak nyaman, sakit hati dan tertekan
baik itu dilakukan oleh perorangan ataupun
kelompok
 Karakteristik Bullying
American Psychiartic Association (APA)
Perilaku Agresif yang dikarakteristikan
dengan 3 kondisi:

perilaku negatif perilaku yang adanya

yang bertujuan diulang ketidakseimbangan
untuk merusak selama jangka kekuatan atau
kekuasaan dari
atau waktu pihak- pihak yang
membahayakan tertentu terlibat
 Dimana bisa terjadi
Bullying?

SEKOLAH RUMAH

LINGKUNGAN
CYBER MASYARAKAT
 JENIS BULLYING

FISIK NON
memukul, mendorong,
mencakar, mencubit, FISIK
menendang, dll. mengancam,
pelecehan seksual mempermalukan,
memanggil dengan
SOSIAL julukan, cyber

melibatkan lingkungan
sosial secara sengaja.
seperti mengucilkan
di kelas
Pihak yang
Terlibat
dalam
Bullying
PELAKU BULLY KORBAN BULLY SAKSI

individu yang secara individu yang sering seseorang atau kelompok

fisik dan/atau menjadi target dari yang melihat atau
emosional melukai perilaku agresif, hanya menyaksikan terjadinya
individu lain secara memperlihatkan sedikit kasus perilaku
berulang-ulang pertahanan untuk perundungan/bullying
melawan
ciri: impulsif, menuntut
perhatian, menantang, ciri: sulit bersosialisasi,
merusak, ada rasa ada hal yang berbeda
marah, firik lebih kuat dari teman (fisik atau
& dominan non fisik)
 Siklus
Bullying

Pelaku Bullying Pelaku Bullying

melakukan memiliki
Aksinya Pengikut

Murid lain tidak

Melaporkan
karena Takut
 Dampak Bullying

Hilangnya Kecemasan yang

Kepercayaan Diri Tinggi

Depresi & PTSD Trust Issues

 Upaya
Bullyin
Pencegahan
g
Kepala Guru dan Staf
Sekolah Sekolah
memberikan atau menerapkan tidak boleh menormalisasikan
aturan dan sanksi yang jelas perilaku bullying
bagi perilaku bullying

Murid / Siswa-
Orang Tua /
Siswi
Wali harus mulai memahami bahwa
memahami bahwa bullying
bullying bukanlah hal yang keren
harus dicegah bersama
LAPORKAN KE SEKOLAH
Jangan merasa takut untuk melapor! Jika dapat
a n c a m a n rekam sebagai bukti
Apa yang
dapat
halDilakukan?
LAPORKAN PIHAK BERWENANG
Bila sangat sudah terganggu, m i n t a bantuan
yang dapat dilakukan
orangtua atau pihak sekolah. KORBAN
Seperti: Kepolisian, P2TP2A

MENCARI BANTUAN PROFESIONAL

M e m i n t a bantuan profesional untuk m engo ba t i
luka psikologis. Bisa m e n d a t a n g i Guru B K
sekolah ataupu psikolog puskesmas
Apa yang dapat
MEMOTONG KEJADIAN BULLY
Jika melihat coba "memotong" atau
mengalihkan dengan cara apapun yang aman.

Dilakukan? Jangan biarkan korban sendiri

hal yang dapat dilakukan POINT OUT UNACCEPTABLE BEHAVIOR

SAKSI Sebutkan atau lakukan sesuatu dengan
menyebutkan ketidakbaikan perilaku bullying
untuk menarik perhatian sekitar

DEKATI DAN DUKUNG KORBAN

Berilah dukungan moril kepada korban. A pa pun
alasannya bullying adalah bentuk kekerasan
 Kemampuan Sosial
Mencegah Bullying

Tumbuhkan Rasa
Jalin Persahabat Saling Menghargai

Belajar Membangun Belajar Menjadi Belajar EMPATI

Kepercayaan Diri ASERTIF
TERIMA
KASIH :)
Bullying adalah...
1) Participate
during class
perilaku tidak menyenangkan
baik secara verbal, fisik, ataupun
sosial di dunia nyata maupun
dunia maya yang membuat
seseorang merasa tidak
nyaman, sakit hati dan tertekan
baik itu dilakukan oleh
perorangan ataupun kelompok
2) Pick
something you
like
To create a stunning
presentation, it's best to simplify
your thoughts. Start with an
outline of topics and identify
highlights, which can be
applied to whatever subject you
plan on discussing.
3) Sometimes it's
scary, and that's
ok!
To create a stunning
presentation, it's best to simplify
your thoughts. Start with an
outline of topics and identify
highlights, which can be
applied to whatever subject you
plan on discussing.
Create
Connections
Look for common ground

To create a stunning presentation, it's best to

simplify your thoughts. Start with an outline
of topics and identify highlights, which can
be applied to whatever subject you plan on
discussing.
 Example
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your thoughts. Start with an outline of topics and identify
highlights, which can be applied to whatever subject you
plan on discussing.

Example
To create a stunning presentation, it's best to simplify
your thoughts. Start with an outline of topics and identify
highlights, which can be applied to whatever subject you
plan on discussing.

Example

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your thoughts. Start with an outline of topics and identify
highlights, which can be applied to whatever subject you
to continue conversations plan on discussing.
Start a
conversation
To create a stunning presentation, it's best to
simplify your thoughts. Start with an outline of
topics and identify highlights, which can be
applied to whatever subject you plan on
discussing.
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identify highlights, which can be a slide with too many words and
applied to whatever subject you plan choose a color palette that
on discussing. won't distract the audience.

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tools that can be used as
demonstrations, lectures,
speeches, reports, and more.
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