Ghosting or Ghoster - PDF
Ghosting or Ghoster - PDF
GHOSTER?
What Happened with Us.
KENALAN
SAMA
PERHANTUAN
Apa itu GHOSTING?
FENOMENA
suatu hubungan
STRATEGI PUTUS
INTINYA,
Ghoster:
inisiator (yang menginisiasi/memiliki ide untuk melakukan Gosting)
Ghostee:
non-inisiator (yang tidak menginisiasi/bukan pemilik ide untuk melakukan
Ghosting)
Ghoster Ghostee
What NUMBERS said ...
"KASIH PERHATIAN
YANG BAPER"
Ghosting Kittenfishing
Breadcrumbing
"NYAMAN SIH,
TAPI LIAT-LIAT
MANTAN: "HAI" "HANTU" BAIK HATI
DULU AH KALI ADA
Zombie-ing Caspering
YANG LEBIH OK"
Benching
Kenapa melakukan
Ghosting?
Mudah, cepat, praktis, Hubungan keterikatan masa
cost-effective kecil - avoidance
self-critic
DAMPAK PSIKOLOGIS
neurologis yang sama dengan sakit fisik. Selain itu, individu dengan
karena ditinggalkan.
BUKAN TENTANG
TAPI PERILAKUNYA
Ghosting terjadi BUKAN karena KAMU KURANG, atau DIA JAHAT, tapi
karena pilihan yang kurang dewasa & bertanggung jawab.
THANK YOU
Referensi
Koessler, R. B., Kohut, T., & Campbell, L. (2019). When your boo becomes a ghost: The
association between breakup strategy and breakup role in experiences of
relationship dissolution. Collabra: Psychology, 5(1).
https://doi.org/10.1525/collabra.230
Freedman, G., Powell, D. N., Le, B., & Williams, K. D. (2019). Ghosting and destiny:
Implicit theories of relationships predict beliefs about ghosting. Journal
of Social and Personal Relationships, 36(3), 905–924. https://doi.org/10.1177/0265407517748791
LeFebvre, L.E., Allen, M., Rasner, R. D., Garstad, S., Wilms, A., & Parrish, C. (2019).
Ghosting in Emerging Adults’ Romantic Relationships: The Digital Dissolution
Disappearance Strategy. Imagination Cognition and Personality, 0(0),
1–26.
https://www.livescience.com/64661-why-people-
ghost.html#:~:text=Ghosting%20is%20common%20and%20can,they%20had%20ghosted%20someone%20themselves.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/i-hear-you/201902/7-essential-psychological-truths-about-ghosting
https://www.psycom.net/what-is-ghosting
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/living-forward/201511/why-ghosting-hurts-so-much